Effective Communication (Listening, Speaking)
Are you able to speak freely when you communicate with others?
Do you truly say what you want to say?
Or do you often stay quiet, only listening,
while others try to convince you of their opinions?
If you’ve ever felt this way,
and you want to experience more open and effective communication,
this message may be helpful for you.
Please read until the end —
it could make a real difference in how you connect with others.
1. When You Listen (Listening)
Listen carefully
Look at the person and pay attention.
Don’t interrupt or talk over them.
Don’t judge
Don’t think “This is wrong” or “That’s silly.”
Just try to understand first.
Be open-minded
Accept their words with a kind and calm heart.
Even if you don’t agree, respect their thoughts.
Remove your own thoughts
Don’t think about what you want to say while they are talking.
Try to listen with an empty and honest mind.
2. When You Speak (Speaking)
Speak honestly
Say what is true and real from your heart.
People trust honest words.
Be kind and respectful
Use gentle and polite words.
Don’t attack or blame others.
Don’t push your opinion
Share your ideas calmly.
Let others speak too.
Speak with a clean heart
Don’t speak with selfish or angry thoughts.
A kind heart makes your words stronger.
💡 Final Tip:
When your mind is clean and kind,
your words will touch people’s hearts,
and they will listen to you.
