The healthy mindset for facing difficulties. 

Some flowers endure harsh winds 

while others are bent and broken by them. 

Is it the fault of the wind or the vulnerability of the flower?

Should the wind not blow at all? 

Why must the wind blow in the first place? 

What determines whether someone shows strength in the face of difficulties, or easily breaks down is their ability to accept things as they are.

Everything follows its natural order, so rather than wishing for the world to adjust to the narrow mold of your mind, it's wiser to adapt yourself to the world. 

Remember, a place where only the sun shines becomes a desert - a place where life cannot thrive.

Reference: Meditation Africa Youtube